When things are new with a relationship, you can look for
signs that this is going to last. Any
phrase with a “we” in it puts rainbows in your eyes.
“We can have a Channing Tatum movie marathon next time.
Tonight let’s watch The Campaign.”
“I heard about a new restaurant, we should check it out
sometime.
“I told my mom I was busy tonight because we had plans
already to hang out.”
When there are a lot of rainbows floating around it can be
hard to see anything else. Do you know
what you should be looking for? The
actual activities/events/things that have been referenced in the rainbow
phrases. Do you have a Channing Tatum
movie night? Do you check out that new
restaurant? Or do you continue to see
each other after 8pm with no real agenda besides “watching a movie.”
Anyone can make a promise or pretend to plan ahead. They may even mean it at the time. A person with real interest will follow
through.
If you hear a “we” phrase and it makes you puke a little in
your mouth you should start practicing your breakup speech.
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