I am introducing a
new feature called “Interview with a Lady”
The theme is meant
to give guys insights into what a girl really wants, and to let other girls out
there know… it’s not just you.
So here we go.
Let me make a list. 1) Pounding -- what the
fuck is that? Women are not a pile of meat. 2) Not pre-heating the oven. NOW
you can think of us as a pile of meat. You don’t throw a steak in a cold pan,
right? 3) Head-pushing. Just in general, I’m not a porn star, and if I’m acting
like a porn star, it’s just to make you happy. 4) Expectations. If I’m ready to
go, I’m going to be more than excited. If I feel pressured, I’m going to be
resentful.
Doggy – ow.
Reverse
Cowgirl – too much work.
69 – how many things do I need to concentrate on at
one time?
Do it coyly. Do it sexily. Make us feel
impassioned. Here’s a tip: don’t text us saying that you want to “fuck us
silly.” That is not sexy. That is not coy. That is … passion, maybe, but … just
not the kind we want, OK? Don’t make us feel like prostitutes. Sometimes just
make out with us just to make out with us. If it always must lead to sex, it
takes away the surprise and makes us feel pressured. Notice the “pressured”
theme? Yeah, there’s something to that.
No way. Girls are masters at creating
super-convincing orgasms. And, by the way, the only reason we are is because
men will ignore all the normal signs and keep trying to rip us apart until we
climax. We’re trying to save our lady parts here.
What
myths would you debunk for the average man?
Women do not want to have sex like porn stars. I
know you think we do. Stop that. We do not need to scream to enjoy sex, nor do
we need to scream to fake it. We have mastered silent orgasms. That’s how good
we are. We don’t want to do seven different positions. If things are going,
just stick with the program. If you fall out … just don’t do it. You deserve a
smack if you’ve done that. Get some control, man.
Have
you tried any tips from Cosmo?
No, but I did follow some advice someone gave
me about something called a starfish.
What
is your best piece of advice for men?
Just take off the pressure and everything
else will happen on its own.
Any
phrase/action that is an instant mood-killer?
“If you’re too sore, I can just put it in
your butt.”
“Girl, I’m gonna fuck you silly.”
“Can I at least get some head?”
“You’ll get used to it.”
“Just suck through the pain.”